Who is the most important person in your life?

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Written By: Ali Kasa

This is tricky and difficult question to answer. In my career as life and business coach, I have asked thousands of people this question and I have got almost thousands of different answers. Some say my mother, some say my father, some say my sister or brother and so on.  What is the correct answer? The correct answer to me is YOU are the most important person in your life.

DO YOU AGREE THAT YOU ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON IN YOUR LIFE?

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1.  Why You are The Most Important Person in Your Life?

The answer is very simple. Close your eyes and imagine how life would be without you? You will realize that without you there is no life for you. Therefore, so long that you are alive you are the most important person in your life.

2. Why do you Need Other People in Your Life if You are the Most Important Person?

When I coach, I come across a lot of people that tell me they would want to live a happy life. I ask what will bring happiness to you? The answers are different but usually mean more money or more material things. I tell them let us do the island exercise. Imagine that you are given the ownership of a beautiful island on one condition that you are the only human inhabiting the island and you cannot come out till death. All people answer they do not want the ownership of the island. Why? Very soon they realize that their life means nothing to them without the loved ones. Other people bring meaning to your life. Without them your life means nothing. A good movie to watch would be Cast Away

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WOULD YOU BE THE OWNER OF THIS ISLAND

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3. Why Would you Sacrifice Yourself for Someone Else if You Are the Most Important Person in your Life?

The answer is LOVE. In the movie Titanic the Character “Jack” sacrificed himself for “Rose” out of love. There are different levels of love. The lowest level is Receiving Love. You love something or someone because of what it provides you. Giving Love is the second level of Love where you do things for others because you love them. The Selfless Love is the highest level of love where someone is willing to sacrifice their time, money, resources and even themselves for someone or something they love.

 The following video explains the fish love which means the receiving Love. 

B – SURVEY

WHAT OR WHO ARE YOU WILLING TO SACRIFICE YOURSELF FOR?

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WHO HAS SACRIFICED FOR YOU SOMETHING?

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In conclusion to me you are the most important person in your life as without you there is no life for you. Your life will be meaningless without your loved ones. If you feel that you willing to sacrifice something or even yourself for someone or something else, you are experiencing the highest level of love. Treasure yourself and the people you love. Be selfless for something that is really worth your sacrifice.

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Hazani
Hazani
1 year ago

A life without love, no matter how many other things we have, is an empty and meaningless one.